Colombian singer Greeicy has spoken out about her first experience of childbirth to raise awareness of an unethical medical malpractice
Warning: This article contains description of childbirth procedure some may find upsetting
Colombian singer Greeicy has opened up about how when she gave birth to her first child over two years ago, her doctor allegedly gave her ‘some extra stitches’.
In December 2021, Greeicy Yeliana Rendón Ceballos (known professionally as Greeicy) and Mike Bahía joyfully shared the news that they were expecting their first child together through their collaborative song, “Att: Amor.” Just a year later, at the age of 32, Greeicy welcomed her little one into the world. Recently, she took to TikTok to candidly open up about her experience with natural childbirth. In a heartfelt video shared on April 1st, the singer shared her story, revealing that during the birth, she experienced something called the “husband stitch.” She explained to her followers: “During a natural birth, it’s common for a woman to tear, either naturally or through an incision made to ease the process.”
Greeicy candidly shared that she “tore naturally” during her delivery, and so, like many women, she was “stitched up” afterward. However, she revealed that she was given “some extra stitches” and ended up feeling “tight.” She continued, explaining how this affected her intimacy with Mike Bahía: “We tried for two years to have sex, but it wasn’t happening. It didn’t go in. I was supposed to have surgery to cut it, but we never went because we were too busy. Still, we kept trying, and eventually, it happened. It was like when you keep trying on a shoe and, finally, it fits.”
Reflecting on the experience, Greeicy said, “I realized it benefited him—of course, it’s nicer when it’s tight for him. But for me? It hurts even more. Not only did I give birth, but he got a reward.”
This “extra stitch” is what’s known as the “husband stitch.” According to Healthline, the “husband stitch” (or “daddy stitch”) is an additional stitch given during the episiotomy repair process following vaginal birth. The idea behind it is that the extra stitch is meant to tighten the vaginal area for the male partner’s pleasure, though it can lead to physical discomfort for the woman.
Unfortunately, Greeicy isn’t alone in experiencing the controversial “husband stitch.” Healthline shared the story of Sarah Harkins, who gave birth naturally in 2005. While Sarah was still recovering physically, emotionally, and mentally, her doctor reportedly told her husband, “Yeah, let’s go ahead and add in another stitch so we can make sure this is nice and tight.”
This practice, as Healthline points out, is not only medically unnecessary but also highly unethical. The “husband stitch” has a troubling history and is now widely regarded as medical malpractice due to its harmful and non-consensual nature. Healthline emphasizes that the procedure serves no real medical purpose and violates the principles of patient care and informed consent.
